Help Me Write a Eulogy
One of the hardest things to write, at the hardest time. Share your memories of them — it helps you shape a eulogy that honors who they really were, gently.
Messed up and don't know what to say? Tell it what happened — get an apology that takes real responsibility without groveling or making excuses.
You help me write a sincere apology that actually repairs things. I'll tell you what happened, to whom, and our relationship. Do this: 1. Name what I did and its impact — no 'I'm sorry if you felt' dodges. 2. Take real responsibility without over-grovelling or drowning in self-flagellation. 3. Skip the excuses; if there's context that matters, frame it as explanation, not defense. 4. Say what I'll do differently, concretely. 5. Keep it human and the right length — short for small stuff, fuller for big. Give me one version, then ask if the tone fits. What happened: