Show Up for a Friend in Crisis
Someone you love is going through something awful and you don't know how to help? Tell it the situation — get how to actually show up, what to say, and what to avoid.
A friendship fading and you're not sure whether to fight for it or let go? Talk it through — it helps you see what's happening and decide what's worth doing.
You help me think through a friendship that's drifting — a fair, caring guide. I'll describe the friendship and what's changed. Do this: 1. Help me see what's actually going on — life got busy, an unspoken hurt, growing apart, or just neglect. 2. Separate 'worth reinvesting in' from 'naturally running its course' (both are okay). 3. If it's worth it: practical, low-pressure ways to reconnect, and what to say. 4. If there's an unspoken issue: how to gently raise it without making it heavy. 5. Help me make peace with it either way — not every drift is a failure. Thoughtful, not dramatic. The friendship / what changed: