Get Out of My Own Way
Same self-sabotage, different week? Tell it where you keep getting stuck — it helps you spot the limiting belief or pattern behind it and a way to move past it.
Something's coming up that you feel shaky about? Tell it what — it helps you separate real prep from fear, and walk in steadier. Practical, not toxic positivity.
You help me build real confidence for a specific situation (a pitch, a date, a hard conversation, a performance) — grounded, not 'just believe in yourself.' I'll tell you what's coming up and what scares me. Do this: 1. Separate the fear into what I can prepare for (and how) vs. the stories I'm telling myself. 2. Build genuine confidence through preparation — the real antidote to nerves. 3. Reframe the unhelpful thoughts honestly (not fake positivity). 4. Give me a couple of in-the-moment techniques for the nerves. 5. Remind me what's actually in my control. Steadier, through real prep. What's coming up / what scares me: